Saturday, January 23, 2010
I don't understand why people have this idea that engaging a domestic helper is to help you mother your OWN kids?! I'M DAMN FREAKING PISSED! Recently, people had been passing remarks and on me (obviously), saying, "OH! You got a maid to help you take care of your boy. Then you can faster give birth to another baby la!"
SERIOUSLY! I'm on the verge of slapping that whoever!!! I'M NOT THAT KIND OF MOTHER WHO JUST THROW MY CHILD TO WHOEVER AND HAVE MY SELFISH PLEASURE! I totally detest the idea of leaving my son with a stranger alone at home and I minimise leaving him with my parents and siblings as well. He is my RESPONSIBILITY. Otherwise, why do you think I will give up my job and help my Dad? HONESTLY, so that I can watch my son grow and be by his side 24/7! So what if I work longer hours for my parents? I'M HAPPY! I can see my parents everyday and be with my son. My helper is hired to do the housework MOSTLY and help me watch over my boy in the office when I'm busy. I FELT SO BLOODY OFFENDED!
FYI! My husband and I PERSONALLY take care of our son in the night (even after working the whole day). When my boy was sick, I stayed up the nights to nurse him. I home-taught him and I give him all the loves I have. Even if I'm to have a second child, I will NOT let Landis feel any difference! He will have my loves and his lil sibling's love and respect as well.
So don't you ASSUME, cos NOT all mothers are what you think they are. HEY! I'M MORE THAN MEETS THE EYE! TRUST ME!
Saturday, January 23, 2010Autumn fun.x
